I wrote a whole rant but deleted it because it was too much to stand. Fuck my In-Laws.
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Wife and I had it out about the In-Laws
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Damn bro! I hate to see anybody lose their marriage, especially getting split because of grown ass adult family members that can't support themselves. In laws should never be a mans burden! You have been standing on your own, been successful, and given your ol' lady a good life. Why the hell do in laws think that they are entitled to some of your hard work too!
I feel you on this one and I understand exactly where your head is right now. I love my wife to death.....however, her family is a bunch of fucking parasites! I wouldn't give a squirt of piss to any one of them! I don't have much problems with them these days though because my wife is sick of their shit too. A few years back I beat the brakes off one of her brothers for getting out of line. Since then we don't even really hear from any of her family anymore and I couldn't be happier.
Maybe you should try wearing out one of these assholes and the rest will work itself out!
I feel you on this one and I understand exactly where your head is right now. I love my wife to death.....however, her family is a bunch of fucking parasites! I wouldn't give a squirt of piss to any one of them! I don't have much problems with them these days though because my wife is sick of their shit too. A few years back I beat the brakes off one of her brothers for getting out of line. Since then we don't even really hear from any of her family anymore and I couldn't be happier.
Maybe you should try wearing out one of these assholes and the rest will work itself out!
I'm not married but my girlfriend of 4 years has a parasite of a mother I just can't stand her... Divorced her father, takes his money, she makes enough off her new boyfriend and her ex that she doesn't even have to work and That's messed up. support yourself and be a grown respectful person, tired of people treating everyone like shit. Keep your head up because at the end of the day you can only control you.
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Which is why I spend very little time with my in laws... everyone's happier. Even tho my in laws are cool as shit, I just avoid contact when I can
I feel you both and the encouragement is appreciated. I just get to the point where I feel like I fucked up somewhat by having these asswads as in-laws man. 20 years ago I would've never imagined that this is how it would be. Everytime my old ladies phone rings it's one of them calling her to bad mouth one of the others and my wife is supposed to fix it, or they call about their kids needing something, or them needing something, or asking us to drive to Houston to pick one of her sisters up to take them to Huntsville to visit her son in prison (8 hours round trip), or calling about a utility bill, or rent, or car insurance, or.... you get the picture. I told my wife our lifestyle is ours, not theirs. I cannot and will not help someone repeatedly who is older than I am and had every chance to do something better, smarter, or wiser with their life. My wife dozed off on the couch and her text went off... the message shows on the screen. They wanna get a 20x20 tent to have this shit in and it costs $396.00 to rent... guess who are the only fuckers that can afford to rent that... exactly. So you want me to travel 14 hours round trip, hang out with people I don't like, be asked by these people to 'let them hold one of them dusty $100's I got' as they put it, buy the food, or at least most of it and rent a $400 tent when I could just keep my ass at home on Fathers Day or go spend $150 taking the family to a Brazilian steakhouse. Wow. My son goes to college spring football in 9 weeks and you want me to spend money on them that could buy my son a fridge, tv, and a laptop? How the fuck can other people plan shit based on my money? Personally I'm not an asshole, but I resent this type of shit man. I could buy gear with this cash. She wanted to take out a personal loan from the bank to pay for this since I told her I wouldn't pay for this shit...who the fuck does that shit? You incur debt to entertain other people? WTF? I get so pissed the fuck off by these people. One of them told her I thought I was better than them....news flash bitches I am. Just because I won't enable you, you call me names like stuck up and uppity? I asked my wife who said it, but she won't tell me because she knows I'll embarrass their asses. I'm worn out man.
21infantry
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Something must be in the air with relationships. I have recently split with my wife different circumstances but fucking drama. I must say though I'm the bad guy on this one. And nah there wasn't any cheating just told her how I really felt. Shit backfired. ...... lol ....... Fuck me running
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One of those instances where you just tell the old lady if you love them so much go be with them. She said she could do that and I said "but you won't because you know you hate it there... you gonna leave your job just to be around them? They can't do shit for you." She knows it's true, I told her she might wanna leave sometimes because of shit I say, but she knows it's true and I'm just going about my asshole way of helping her. I told her "You're the baby sister helping raise your bigger brothers and sisters and that's ass backwards. I may not fuck with my people (my side of fam), but at least I know how and who to cut off people that don't wish me well." She got pissed and tried to bring my pops into the matter and I told her straight up that I was treated like a 2nd class citizen and had to damn near wait till I was a grown man to get a solo ' I love you' outta my old man because he was so wrapped up into being equal with me and my step-bro's. Life has sucked a long while in my skin, but it's made me the tough sob I am and I'm willing to sever ties with anyone if need be.
If you give people free stuff long enough they start to feel entitled to it.The fact that they call you stuck up & bad mouth you while you're feeding them is unbelievable.I wouldn't want to be in your shoes bro.That's definitely a fucked up situation.I consider myself lucky cause most of my wife's family is either dead or 2000 miles away.She has one sister nearby that likes to talk shit about me,but she never asks us for anything cause she knows she won't get shit out of me.
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PHURIOUS
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Just cut them off. If your wife wants to go into debt then let her and let her learn the hard way. Fuck all that.
PHURIOUS
rockmfhudd
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ok im just curious wtf kinda tent is 400 dollars to rent? lol does it come with food and shit too? cuz i know ol pot roast aint goin without food or is that just the fuckin tent from jump street
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PHURIOUS
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Its a big ol canvas tent popup for like wedding reception or events to get u out of the sun
PHURIOUS
It's hard not to see them when we do go there and not start shooting mother fuckers in the face... My wife asked me if I wanted to move to Louisiana when I retired and I laughed so hard she got upset. Her mom has Alzheimer's and she just wanted to be closer to help her out, but I could not risk being that close to those people man. Those assholes would just pop in whenever and mooch like the black hill billies they are.
Her debt will eventually affect me as I'd have to rescue her ass eventually unless I popped smoke on that ass.
rockmfhudd
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just tell her mom wont remember if she was there or not lmmfao
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PHURIOUS
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Then u just say "no" we arnt doing it. And if u wanna defy me and do it urself and fuck up my finances and credit we are done. Seems like u dont really need any of them. Maybe its time to move on
PHURIOUS
rockmfhudd
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ew iono man 50% of your retirement it may be cheaper to keep her at this point i mean that shit aint no joke bruh, i mean you have learned to deal with it it is like a pwo for you to get mad and throw some iron around just thinkin of those hungry hawngry hippos hahahahaha
^^^^ what PHURIOUS said bro... I'm just trying to figure out why the fuck they bring the shit to us to pay for. Fuck them, they seriously make me want to fuck them up. Let me break them down to you one by one:
Brother in law 1: was so overweight the docs told him if he didn't lose weight he'd be dead in 2-3 years, 50+ years old, lives with parents. I think he's a possible pedophile type guy.
Brother in law 2: CDL licensed and not getting a job 50+ yo man who lives at parents house. I left two pistols with him at my wifes request when we were stationed in Germany years ago. He pawned them both and I am just waiting for him to show me a pistol of his so I can just take whatever I want from him.
Sister in law 1: She's cool
SIL 2: the obese teacher with two bachelor degree's and a Masters that has two adult drop out daughters, a son in highsec max facility, a college grad son who turned down a RR job because 'he doesn't want to work hard' and two grandchildren all at home with her.
SIL3 aha POT ROAST: Fat and no job currently, 12th time moving apartments this year. Has two adult kids and one minor with stupity written all on their genetic codin.
rockmfhudd
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well here is how i see it, buy as many big macs as bil #1 can eat and send him to an early grave with diabeetus lol
bil2 get some hard hittin folks in the lou pay em 500 to rob his ass
SIL #1 see if she can talk some damn sense into your wife or atleast fuck her in the mouth
SIL #2 no excuse for not working
sil3 aka pot roast needs to be cutoff, just keep doin you bro your wife will eventually run out of patience or money for her ya it may ruin your credit but hey its better than 50% retirement that she didn't earn you did!!!! squirrel money away eventually she will need a bailout and then you can lay down the fucking BAN HAMMER on that ass
bil2 get some hard hittin folks in the lou pay em 500 to rob his ass
SIL #1 see if she can talk some damn sense into your wife or atleast fuck her in the mouth
SIL #2 no excuse for not working
sil3 aka pot roast needs to be cutoff, just keep doin you bro your wife will eventually run out of patience or money for her ya it may ruin your credit but hey its better than 50% retirement that she didn't earn you did!!!! squirrel money away eventually she will need a bailout and then you can lay down the fucking BAN HAMMER on that ass
