Drb has trained many women and the doses for women and winny are all over the place. Some make great gains on 5mg/day. I have seen his logs run from 5mg day-25mg/day. He prefers primo/var for the bigger stronger women, and just var fr the first timers. Some also use 20/20 deca/test. So what I am saying is that it is very experimental for women, so start with a low dose of var and work up from there. If you insist on winny then start with 5mg and each week see how you feel. You can increase it by 5mg each week until you find your dose.
I would also do the shower on the clit thing. If the water causes a change in sensation that you don't particularly care for...a bad sensitivity, a small shooting pain etc, then back down your dose. You can look/google image porn star denise massino...not sure of the spelling...but she is what can happen from too much. Her clit size is permanent. She seems to like it so good for her. If you do not want that then pay attention to the shower water. Pay attention to your voice. Ask someone you trust to keep check on your voice.
PM me if you have questions because I can ask drb or his sisters.One is internal med and the other endocrinology...both do trt for men.